This post is for the people that have a good girl and guy but treat them like shit. I’m going to give you some heartfelt advice. If you know your not doing right by then LEAVE THEM ALONE!!
I’m tired of seeing good people getting there hearts broken by no good people.
People like that are just plain ol’selfish to me. You know that your not in a good head place to date someone but you still want to. That to me is SELFISH!!
If you know want to play the field still don’t get into a relationship. If you know you don’t have the heart to love someone other than yourself don’t get into a relationship. If you know your a gold digger don’t get into a relationship. If you know your not in love with them walk away nothing hurts more than false hopes.
Let those good people go find someone that can truly love them and treat them the way they should be treated because you know they deserve it. Be the bigger person and walk away before you destroy them and the next person has to pay for your mistakes.
To the true lovers of the world I wish you nothing but bliss. Have a wonderful love filled day. To the selfish lovers of the world have a heart and let them GO!!!
I don’t even know where to begin with this post so I’m just going to start.
When I was 25 I was diagnosed with AVNRT which is Atrioventricular Nodal Reentry Tachycardia. Which basically means I was born with an extra piece of tissue in my heart and sometimes the electricity in my heart hits it and throws off the heartbeat which causes me to have palpitations, chest pain, tightening of chess and etc.
When I heard that at 25 I was just like this is can’t be real. I have been healthy my whole life. I first had those symptoms in early November of 2014 I ended up going to the hospital and they found something totally different. Now that I think about it this diagnosis saved my life. By the time I got to the hospital the symptoms where gone but they found I had a pulmonary embolism on my lung which is a blood clot.
They ended up treating me for that but two weeks later I’m right back in the ER for the AVNRT. It was pretty scary ordeal. I had people everywhich way. I felt like I was on an epeisode of ER. That was the night they diagnosed me.
For the past three years I have been dealing with this. It’s been pretty damn scary. Most people might think I’m complaining because other people are way more sicker than me. Which I get but in that moment in my life I was scared. I didn’t know if my heart was going to go out, have a heart attack, or my blood clots came back. I was plain ol’ scared out of my mind. You know what I didn’t tell anybody just kind of put it out of my mind type of thing. When the symptoms came I knew how to stop them until last week. Because now my fear is back.
Last week I couldn’t stop them those symptoms came back x10. I felt like I was having a heart attack (never had a heart attack) but sure felt like I was dying.
Now I have to do a procedure where they have to basically cut off that piece of tissue. It’s an in and out procedure but I’m freaking scared. Anything can go wrong. There’s a possibility they may not find it or a possibility it can be something else entirely.
I still don’t know why I am writing this post. I guess just to put my fears to blog (hahaha can’t say paper). I can say I feel better about the whole dang on thing. Still pretty scared but I feel better got my thoughts out.
Have a positive day.
It’s no shame in walking away. You did this for yourself. Don’t let anyone let you feel bad about your choice to walk away. Be proud of yourself. No one deserves to stay in a relationship of any kind where they are unhappy. Stand strong in your decision and for once choose yourself💜
Remember lifes to short to be unhappy.
Morning loves. Happy Sunday!!
This post is for the girls that were told “Your pretty for a dark skin girl(s).”
Please like this post if you have ever been told that above. I HATE those seven words with a fierce passion. Why can’t I be beautiful because of my dark skin?
Growing up I was always made fun of because of my skin color. My siblings would call me “blacky” all the time due to the name calling I would grow up to hate my skin tone. I will never forget the time I was introduced to Coco Butter. I used that every day morning and night. About four months into using it my mother noticed my skin changing. She asked me what was going on with my face. I told her “I don’t know I’m just becoming lighter.” Around the six month mark she finally caught on to what I was doing by this time it was two late the damaged was already done. I had lights spots on my cheeks but the rest of my face was dark. Thus having me being called “two toned”. My thinking at that time was if I was lighter I would be beautiful. If I was lighter I would not be made fun of. If I was lighter boys would notice me.
In my haste to lighten my skin didn’t realize that you had to put it all over your face and not just on the areas you didn’t like. It took years for my skin to become back to normal. Even now its tough to find certain foundations.
I was not raised to love my skin until I got older and realized that my skin was not going anywhere. It is apart of me. Take this time to look into the mirror and see that beauty that is you.
If you take away anything from this post. Understand that YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOUR SKIN IS BEAUTIFUL. Your skin color does not determine if your a pretty or not. I came across this video by Buzzfeed about dark skin and how people from various cultures go through this. Take a look at it. I have included it in bottom of this post.
I love my skin 💜💜
Morning Loves. Happy Saturday. I hope that you have an amazing day. I hope you are feeling yourself today.
A friend of mines is going through some relationship troubles right now. She asked me to write about it for her on my post for today because she felt that I gave her some good advice. Throughout her whole spiel. The main thing that stuck out from what she was telling me was that he did not respect her because if he did he would show it.
I can tend to be a little blunt when I am giving friends relationship advice. I am this way because I don’t want to sugar coat anything. I feel like people pacify these things. You need to be direct and you need to be honest.
RESPECT!! You deserve it.
If they don’t respect you. LEAVE!! If they don’t respect you relationship LEAVE!!
“I can’t control your behavior; nor do I want that burden… but I will not apologize for refusing to be disrespected, to be lied to, or to be mistreated. I have standards; step up or step out.”
One thing I learned is that if you don’t have respect for yourself no one will!!
Demand Respect in your relationship.
Same thing goes for the people that don’t treat your love one with respect. YOU NEED TO END IT.
Respect yourself if you don’t know one else will.
Day 3 Self-Love Friday!!!
Morning people. Happy Friday!!!
Self-Love its important, it’s something we need. Something I know I lack daily. Today I want you to wake up and SAY “I am Beautiful. I am Gorgeous. I’M HERE TO SLAY!!
Go forth today and slay. Be Your Beautiful!!
Hating yourself for what you aren’t.
LOVING yourself for everything you are.
DAY 2 Topic Feelings!!
LADIES AND GENTS OPEN UP TO YOUR SPOUSES!!!
One of the things I regret in my previous relationships is not talking about my feelings. Telling them how I felt. I am the type that keeps things inside. Never opening up. I would keep everything inside.
COMMUNICATION IS KEY PEOPLE!! Open up. If you not happy LET THEM KNOW. If your upset LET THEM KNOW. If you sad LET THEM KNOW. Tell them how you feel.
Finally, the feelings that you both have should be equal as well as the effort in the relationship should be equal.
If you have anything you want to talk about don’t hesitate to email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
As always Be Inspired to live a life you LOVE<3