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Write It! 

Write your own story. It’s your life. Write it beautifully. Cross out moments you don’t like. Highlight the moments you do like. 

 I inspire you to write it. Your life is a wonderful story that’s waiting to be told. So tell the story. 

Be Amazing, Be Beautiful, Be Vibrant. 

Ebony Monae, 


Do what makes your heart beat faster💖

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Accepting Your Solitude!

Morning Loves. I hope your having a amazing morning. If your not remember the 5by 5 rule. If it’s not going to matter in 5 years don’t spend more the 5 minutes upset by it. I would not steer you wrong. This works. I use it all the time. 

It’s #mondaymorninginspirations, this qoute above piggybacks what’s I was saying a week ago about one being content with themselves. Today I want to take it a step forward. Meaning I want you to enjoy silence in your life. Mediate. Get to that place where your at peace and let the silence flow. Ease your mind. 

Sometimes all it takes is deep breaths. I use to mediate and it worked for me. I’m going to try to do that one day this week. It was calming and I was at peace when I was done. Everyone has there own things. Find what works for you. But I encourage you to ease your mind. Like the quote says find your solitude but don’t be afraid of it.  

Ebony Monae💖 


Get in touch with your inner self. 

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Stop Existing & Live

Your not living if you are existing. Live your life. Do amazing things with it. Life is short. It’s here today gone tomorrow. Don’t be afraid to live it. Don’t be afraid to go after your dreams. 

To my friend that is struggling this post is dedicated to you. Your amazing individual. God blessed you with amazing talents. Use them. Show the world them.    

I believe you have the potential to do amazing things if you let go of what others said you couldn’t do. Just know I believe in you. 

Be Amazing, Be Beautiful, Be Vibrant. 

Ebony Monae💗


Live life to the best of your ability. Don’t simply exist when you can live💖

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Silence is Golden 

Morning beauties. Let’s have a wonderful and amazing day. 

“The smarter you get, the less you speak.” 

I freaking love that. It’s true. I’m learning that not everything requires a response. Recently I had someone text me and basically say that they didn’t want to talk to me anymore. I truly wanted to respond to them but I took a moment to regroup myself and was basically like screw you. You don’t get a reward. That reward is bestowing you with my response.  So I didn’t respond. I applied my 5by5 rule and let it go. I’m done with being upset over people who don’t want to speak with me. I been there and done that and I’m sure you have as well. 

My advice to you is to be quiet. I understand that sometimes you want to respond but sometimes things don’t need it your silence is golden. Apply this to your life and see how much it will benefit you. 

Be Amazing, Be Beautiful and Be Vibrant. 

Ebony Monae💜  

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Live YOUR Best Life💜

Afternoon Loves. Happy Monday. I love this quote above. Just block it all out. Focus on you and live your life. People will always be two steps ahead of you in life. The only thing that matters is where you are in life. 

Focus on being a better person than who you were yesterday💜 

As always Be Amazing, Be Beautufil and Be Vibrant💜 

Much Love, 

Ebony Monae


Live your best life💗

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Well Hello There👋🏾

Good Morning. HAPPY SATURDAY💜 Who waits for Saturday to come? I sure do. I love just laying in bed and not having to hear a alarm go off. It feels amazing. 

I hope my post finds you doing amazingly well. I hope you have nothing but peace and happiness today. 

Today’s the day just to enjoy and relax. Have a good time. Meet up with a old friend. Catch a late summer yard sale. Or better yet do nothing. Stay at home and watch tv or read a book. That’s the beauty of it. It’s your day do as you please. 

As always, Be Beautiful, Be Amazing, Be Vibrant💜

Until next time, 

Ebony Monae💜

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Where to Next

Morning. Rise and shine and let the world know you came to SLAY💁🏾 

Who can say by a show of how many likes this post gets that the picture you had for yourself at your age now is not where you thought you would be. That being said I will be the first to like this post. 

At twenty six going on twenty-seven. I thought I would be finished with my masters degree and engaged. Is that how my life is now? Hell to the no. I’m twenty six and I’m still trying to figure what I want to do with the rest of my life. A couple months ago I wrote that I thought after I graduated college there was a manuscript on life. You graduate and have it all figured out. The bare honest truth is you don’t. Nothing is figured out. 

For a while I was ashamed to admit that. Why? Well because I was scared. I am a planner. I like things to be planned. But God. That amazing person showed me that he has the answers not me. 

So now I just take it a day at a time. I don’t know where I’m suppose to be. I don’t know what I’m suppose to do but I have faith and I trust God to guide me. Somedays it seems I have it all together and other days I’m just like lord send me a sign. Help me. 

The beauty is I’m where I’m meant to be! That can happen to you as well. Let go of that thought you have in your head about yourself. If your religious or spiritual let it all guide you to your next destination on this journey we call life. 

As always Be Amazing, Be Beautiful and Be Vibrant💜

Ebony Monae<3 


life is forever changing always remember sometimes you have to readjust your sails💜 

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Matters of the Heart

Morning Loves. Happy Tuesday.

So James Arthur who is one of my favorite, favorite artist of all time released a song last Friday. Let me tell you its amazing. I have been following James for a while now. He’s a truly gifted artist. He sings with such emotion it gives me chills. His songs are beautifully written by him and guys let me tell you I am in love. Absolutely in freaking love. Okay I’m done fangirling for now.

It’s been awhile since I have posted a song I like. All I ask is take a moment to listen to this song and I hope you enjoy it as much as I did. 

For the love birds out there I hope it makes you think of someone special in your life.  Enjoy.


As always Be Amazing, Be Beautiful and Be Vibrant💜

Ebony Monae💜


“I’m so in love with you,  I hope you know.”

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Learning to be Content with Myself

Good morning loves. Happy Thursday. I hope your week is going great. I hope your being the best you person you can be.  

I had this quote above saved in draft folder for a long time but significance of it didn’t hit home until recently. 

I am forever being pulled in many different directions. Trying to make time for everyone. For that I am to blamed. I agree to do things that I sometimes forget that I’m not superwoman. That I forget about me. I forget about taking time for me. This weekend I did that. I took five glorious days for myself. I went shopping, had dinner alone, went to a poetry show. I went on a mini road trip. It was fine. In therapy my therapist and I are working on me doing things alone. Being content with myself. I always have to bring someone with me for me to be comfortable doing things. In all honesty I was scared to do things alone. I mean who wants to. 

One thing I learned from last week is you can do it. You can take time for yourself and be unapologetic about it. Last week I also got into a fight with my girlfriends and it was a small thing that turned into a big thing. It had me thinking that maybe I should do this so we can be back to where we were even when I didn’t want to. Even when I was not ready to. I was setting a course for my life based on them. If that makes any sense. I had to really take a step back and say no. I had to acknowledge that I’m still upset and hurt by what transpired and that its okay for me to be. 

What’s not okay is that I would have went down a different avenue just so we would not be mad at each other again. In that instance I let the argument set a different course of my life.  

In the end this quote just embodied everything I aiming to be. I’m working on me. I’m doing what I want with my life. I’m learning to let go of others perceptions about life and learning to understand my own. 

If you take anything from this post take the fact that you can have time set aside just for you and you can enjoy it ALONE.

As always Be Amazing, Be Beautiful and Be Vibrant💜 

Ebony Monae💜


be unapologetic about who you are!