I love this quote it is so inspiring. If we give it much thought we are like butterflies. We grow and change throughout life. Certain things in life help shape the person we are. I love how it states “….finding my true colors in life”. That’s what I am doing. Finding who I am in life, finding what I want out of life, finding my colors. Since purple is my favorite color I hope My color is filled with vibrant shades of purple💜 .
Yesterday I had to take a seat and really think about what I want in life. I recently connected with an ex. He was my first love, my first everything and I love him deeply. He is finally the man that I knew he could be and I was happy that he grew up. We started to talk and get to know the person we are today. Slowly I found myself becoming a person I am not to appease him and do things that I don’t do. Yesterday I cut all ties because the person I am becoming is not the person or woman he wants. I am a free spirit and you can’t cage me. I love the person I am becoming. He was trying to change my life choices and decisions to become someone that suited him. It took me awhile to undertand that I am not who he wants. He doesn’t like the whole package he likes the outer appearance but not the inner beauty. I want a man that loves the WHOLE package.
So while telling him this, I felt FREE. I found my wings and let him know that he is not for me because the person I am today is not the person who I use to be. I am no longer that nineteen year old who would have followed you too the end of earth. I am now a woman that is strong in her choices and her faith in herself. I love you but I love myself more.
I am flying and being on my way hoping that God puts a man in my life that’s an image of him. That knows my heart and accepts and loves my whole package. I refuse to settle for less than I deserve.
No woman should change who they are for a man. No man should change who they are for female. If you love the person you are then they should accept who you are. Love them for them. As mentioned on Monday life is too short to be anything but what makes you happy. A person that your are proud of.
I hope this post finds you in place like I was and the words help you find your true colors💜.
Be who you want to be, BE YOU💜