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Hello November 🍂🍁

Good Morning Loves,

Today is a new month.

Today marks a new chapter in your life.

Today marks a new reason to smile.

Today marks a new reason to laugh.

Today marks a new day to cry (let it out)

Today is the day you stop setting for that person you know is not good for you. Today is the day YOU let go. I personally know that it’s hard because I hang on to people when I should have let them go along time ago. Remember that when you let go of what was you open yourself up to what is come.

XOXO,

Ebony🌸

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We are all Struggling!

Good Morning Loves,

Happy Tuesday!!! My friend sent me the quote above, I’m personally in this place, I needed to see this. I needed to be reminded that I’m not failing at this thing called life.

So I’m sharing it today with someone that needed to see this. YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!

Right now is hard and THATS OKAYY. Understand your not a failure. Your doing the best you can AND THATS OKAY!!

So today I want to encourage to KEEP GOING💜

Xoxo,

Ebony

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I’m 29!!!

Your girl has turned 29 yesterday.

First and foremost I want to THANK my higher power for another year of life.

THANK YOU to everyone who remembered me today and reached out.

THANK YOU to my friends and family for my wonderful gifts.

This past year I THANK YOU, you taught me to what’s it’s like to fail and yet get back up to keep fighting.

THANK YOU for giving me happy moments.

THANK YOU for giving me crying moments.

THANK YOU for showing me that I’m strong despite my shortcomings.

Today I write this. I am going to FORGIVE MYSELF for the hours I wasted.

FORGIVE MYSELF, for the chances I didn’t take.

FORGIVE MYSELF, for not listening to my own voice.

FORGIVE MYSELF, for loving someone who didn’t deserve me.

I PLEDGE this year to take more chances in life.

I PLEDGE to make this my best year yet.

I PLEDGE to let go of things that no longer serve me.

I PLEDGE to always honor myself first.

So happy birthday to everyone who was born in October 25th. May you be blessed and may my post uplift and enlighten you 💜

Xoxo,

Ebony

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Keep on LIVING, No Matter What!

Morning loves,

Hope my fellow New Yorkers are having a wonderful snow ❄️ day.

As I was driving to work(I’m one of those people who had to work) I was thinking about how I keep on pushing through every obstacle thrown my way. I thought how truly blessed I am. I’m still here despite what I went though.

Just wanted to give you guys some motivation this morning. Keep on living!!! Life maybe hard but don’t give up!

Don’t give up! Don’t give in!

XoXo 💋,

-E

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1 Year 

As we prepare to lay down for the night. I want to you to think about what the next 364 days will hold for you. Think about all the things you want to do.  


It’s a blank book. Get up tomorrow and start living your destiny. I encourage and inpire you to live this life that your thinking about.

Until tomorrow my loves sweet dreams. 

-E

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Love Again💜

Please don’t give up on love. Don’t give up on your happy ending. We all go through relationships that are painful. Look at that failed relationship as a learning experience and learn from it. 

Hunny relationships will fail, you will get hurt, and you will most likely hate love and give up on it. I’m telling you not to. Take your time to heal and grow but know that if it’s true love and meant to be it will be

Give someone a chance to show you all the things you deserve. Life is short to go through it with out love. 

Loving Again, 

Ebony Monae💜💜 

ps, 

Have the courage to trust LOVE one more time💜

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Focusing on YOU👈🏾

Happy Tuesday! Lets go forth and have a fabulous day. Love yourself. Love others. Smile. Laugh. Why? Simply because life is never promised. 

My thoughts on this rainy morning is this qoute below. You know it’ weird sometimes I don’t know how exactly am I feeling until I go on Pinterest. I found this qoute below and it summed up my feelings. Does anyone experience this or is it just me? Anyways.  

 I’m learning to just focus on me. Everyone I know is either getting married, having kids, moving away. I just feel somewhat lonely. I am learning to focus on me. My journey in life is different from there’s. So I have to take a step back and first appreciate the journey God has me on and second understand everyone’s journey won’t be the same. 


It is  okay to focus on you. It’s okay to be doing things differently. There is no manual on life. We all go about life differently. On this Tuesday start focusing on you. 

Living MY life, 

Ebony Monae💖 

ps, 

Do what you need to do to make yourself happy😘 

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Know Your Worth!

  
R-E-S-P-E-C-T!!!! 

 Hunny have respect for yourself. LOVE yourself. Do not let anyone put you down, make you feel worthless. You are beautiful! You are amazing! You are NOT what they said you are! The basis for all relationships is RESPECT. 

Lauren Hill, she is just a beautiful soul. Take her words to heart. If she/he doesn’t respect you, then they don’t DESERVE you! I can attest to this. I been through it. I let them do that to me. In the end I learned myself worth. I learned that,  NO you will not speak to me that way. NO you will not put me down, make me feel inferior. The day I said NO I started living for ME! 

Furthermore do not go by what you see on TV. Nowadays you see these woman on these reality shows that let these men make them look like a fool. They have no respect for there relationships or the woman they are dating. Do Not be taken for a fool for any man/women that do not know how to be in a healthy and stable relationship! It’s not cute or healthy to be treated like that. Know Your Worth! 

Lastly, it’s okay to be alone. Don’t be afraid of being alone. There is beauty in growing and learning about yourself. Don’t be disrespected. Don’t stand for that. I understand it’s not easy to walk a way, but understand this there is beauty in walking away! 

Giving it to you Straight, 

EbonyMonae💜

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Patiently Waiting for my Love Story💗

 Sometimes I forget about the true meaning of being patient!  
I am so glad I came across this on my Pinterest board. I will be turning twenty-six on my birthday in October. With all my friends starting to settle down; I will admit it reminds me how lonely I am. Especially when all your siblings have children and your moms (my best friends mom and my own mother) start to give you the it’s time to settle down talk. Those conversations makes me realize how alone I am. How I would love to be in a relationship again. Even though I would like to be in a relationship I Will NOT SETTLE! 

 I want to be in a relationship that is based on love, honesty and trust something I never had in any of my past relationships. But seeing this made me take a step back and look at my life and see where I am. My nana use to say “God has plan for everything in your life”  and she is correct I just have to be patient there is something he wants me to learn before he can present me with the man that can awaken my heart and break down the walls surrounding it. I will thank god when he does because I will know that man will be the a true gift from God! 

Sometimes in life we have to take a step back from the things we don’t won’t so God can direct us towards the things that we should HAVE. 

Patiently Waiting,

Ebony Monae💜


ps

Don’t loose hope and just settle, someone will come along and sweep you off your feet💜