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Let It GO

Morning Sunshines,

As you know this week its all about #selfcare. I want to just focus on me this week. I plan on mediating this morning and I’m going to burn some sage to clear my aura. I am starting to feel lighter and so much better. Todays topic is letting go. Even if that includes people.

A couple of months ago I had my heart broken in two, besides being devastated I felt like a damn fool. When I felt like this all those insecurities started to enter my mind. I started to ask myself if I was good enough? Am I pretty enough? I started to degrade myself. Started to feel unworthy.  What I should of told myself “Yes I Am Enough”

During that time I didn’t want to face the truth, so I closed myself off and wallowed in my pain. This was also a reason I didn’t blog. I felt like a damn fraud to my readers. I encouraged you to walk away from hurtful people, yet I didn’t. I let this person back into my life. I fell for the lies and I fell hard.  For the last couple of months I carried that hurt with me, but  TODAY its gone  You want to know why? Because it is not my pain to carry. I gave my all to a person who was not ready, but I don’t deserve to allow that pain to stay with me.

I came to realization that what is meant to be is meant to be. I had to learn to let go of something that was not good for me. I will say during that time I didn’t want to hear that, didn’t want to see that. Now reflecting on it, I am glad it ended the way it did because NOW I know what I deserve. NOW I know better. NOW I am stronger. To anyone going through heartbreak know that it gets better. Know that you learn to smile through the pain and the first breath after letting it all go is the most beautiful sound you will ever hear.

There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we can’t live without but have to let go!

Breathing Easier💜

EM

 

 

 

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Day 3 Self-Love Friday!!!

Morning people. Happy Friday!!!

Self-Love its important, it’s something we need. Something I know I lack daily. Today I want you to wake up and SAY “I am Beautiful. I am Gorgeous. I’M HERE TO SLAY!!

Go forth today and slay. Be Your Beautiful!!

 

-Love E

ps,

STOP!

Hating yourself for what you aren’t.

START.

LOVING yourself for everything you are. 

 

 

 

 

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Happy February!!

Its been a long time no write (it was funny when I thought about it in my head) now it sounds corny but you know what? I am a corn ball so I’m going to leave it right up there.

Happy Feburaryyyyyyyyyy again. I can’t believe its the second month of 2017. With that being said I want to introduce something for the next 14 days I will doing. I will be dishing out some advice on self-love and relationships. Why? Because we get so caught up in relationship we forget about ourself’s.

Relationships are not easy. They are hard work.  I will be giving some advice I have on relationships and some of the things I would have done/have not done in my relationships and wish I did. If you need advice or would like me to speak on a matter don’t hesitate to email me ebonymonaeblog@gmail.com

Now that its February people will begin to feel down because they are single for the month of LOVE but you know what fuck that(sorry for the language) We get so caught up in wanting to have a relationship that we forget that its okay to be single. BE SINGLE trust me its not the end of the world.

As the month begins don’t get all caught up in wanting to be in a relationship, BE IN RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SELF!!

 

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You Are Extraordinary💖 


My beautiful sisters. You are EXTRAORDINARY! We are more than our looks. What you have in the inside matters. Your are Kind! Your are Courageous! You are Strong! Your are Amazing! 

Happy Tuesday my Beautiful Sisters! 

Encouraging People of Today, 

Ebony Monae💖