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Are We?

Are we being BOLD?

Are we listening to our HEART♥️?

Are we living the life we IMAGINED? 🙇🏾‍♀️

If not, WHY? Take time today to answers these questions. Here’s some encouragement!


Listen to your HEART♥️!!!

Life your greatest LIFE💃🏾💃🏾!!



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Helloooo Me, Hello October

Good morning,

It’s been a while since I have written and I’m sorry about that. I been all over the place these last couple months. My heart was broken, I was lonely and depression came back and it was wining. I felt like I couldn’t shake it. With that being said, I’m trying to get back to myself. I’m trying to find my narrative again. Find out what I want again.

I encourage you to put one foot in front of the other today. To smile. To laugh. I also encourage you to cry. To scream. To yell. Let it all out. Let out the pain and anger so tomorrow you feel as though your finally finding yourself again.

Much Love Ebony 💜


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Just Go With The Flow

Morning loves,

Today I’m feeling so great today. I woke up and my whole mindset changed. I stopped planning my day and just chose to go with the flow. I’m a planner, I like to have things planned out. Lately nothing has been going the way I want. Yesterday I got some good advice “don’t start your day with a plan, because if you do and it doesn’t go to plan your whole mindset will be changed for the day.”

Can I say that this morning. I didn’t wake up dreading going into work. Instead I snoozed my alarm two times(I love those five extra minutes of sleep), woke up, took a deep breath and started my day. I didn’t plan on what task I was going to accomplish first. It really helped me.

My advice to you; take a deep breath and just go with the flow.

Have a great morning!!

XoXo ,


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Happy December!!

I can’t believe this year has flew past so quickly. I can tell you that I have deff been slacking off with my blogging last month and I’m so sorry about that. I had my hands full with everything. I have some great things planned for next year I will say.  I hope all my readers are doing amazing. 

The inspiration for this month is to do something you promised yourself that you were going to do all year long and you didn’t. It could be simple as read two books or more daring like go on a date. Do this for yourself you won’t be sorry I promise. 

I can tell you that I am working on self-care and financial health for this month. Most likely it will be in my New Years resolution as well. Those are the main things I feel I need to work on. Now self-care for me includes everything from healthy eating, staying with my facial routine, attending my therapy appointments and doing the things I love. What’s yours? 

This month I really want you guys to do something you didn’t do this year that you promised yourself. Leave a comment on this post I would love to hear about it. 

Ebony Monae💗


“Make yourself a priority once in awhile. It’s not selfish. It’s necessary.”  

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Morning Sunshines☀️

I hope you have a amazing day. Going forth today I want you to remember that You Matter. 

Don’t forget that You Will Always Matter. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you don’t.  Don’t let anyone ever tell you differently. 

This is your amazing, vibrant, and beautiful life that matters. This is your life and I want to inspire you to live it beautifully

Ebony Monae 💜

You Will Always Matter💜 

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Well Hello There👋🏾

Good Morning. HAPPY SATURDAY💜 Who waits for Saturday to come? I sure do. I love just laying in bed and not having to hear a alarm go off. It feels amazing. 

I hope my post finds you doing amazingly well. I hope you have nothing but peace and happiness today. 

Today’s the day just to enjoy and relax. Have a good time. Meet up with a old friend. Catch a late summer yard sale. Or better yet do nothing. Stay at home and watch tv or read a book. That’s the beauty of it. It’s your day do as you please. 

As always, Be Beautiful, Be Amazing, Be Vibrant💜

Until next time, 

Ebony Monae💜

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Where to Next

Morning. Rise and shine and let the world know you came to SLAY💁🏾 

Who can say by a show of how many likes this post gets that the picture you had for yourself at your age now is not where you thought you would be. That being said I will be the first to like this post. 

At twenty six going on twenty-seven. I thought I would be finished with my masters degree and engaged. Is that how my life is now? Hell to the no. I’m twenty six and I’m still trying to figure what I want to do with the rest of my life. A couple months ago I wrote that I thought after I graduated college there was a manuscript on life. You graduate and have it all figured out. The bare honest truth is you don’t. Nothing is figured out. 

For a while I was ashamed to admit that. Why? Well because I was scared. I am a planner. I like things to be planned. But God. That amazing person showed me that he has the answers not me. 

So now I just take it a day at a time. I don’t know where I’m suppose to be. I don’t know what I’m suppose to do but I have faith and I trust God to guide me. Somedays it seems I have it all together and other days I’m just like lord send me a sign. Help me. 

The beauty is I’m where I’m meant to be! That can happen to you as well. Let go of that thought you have in your head about yourself. If your religious or spiritual let it all guide you to your next destination on this journey we call life. 

As always Be Amazing, Be Beautiful and Be Vibrant💜

Ebony Monae<3 


life is forever changing always remember sometimes you have to readjust your sails💜 

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Working on ME💜

I posted this to remind everyone we are a work in PROGRESS!  We are changing everyday. We are fighting battles people no nothing about! I know that I am trying everyday to be a better person than yesterday.! Who can relate? 

To a person that’s struggling this message is for you. Change comes over time. Not in a instant!  If your working at it you will see change. I whole heartedly believe that if you put in the work change will come. NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF! You are not perfect no one is but if you strive to make a difference in yourself you will see change. I hope this message reaches you and encourages you! 

Much Love, 

Ebony Monae 


Don’t forget we are only human we will make mistakes! 

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Happy Tuesday! 

Hey guys. Happy Tuesday. It’s a new week. Let’s strive to be that person we know we can be. Let’s be better then we were yesterday.  My favorite quote now is “have courage and be kind!” That’s from the Cinderella movie. I got a chance to rewatch it this weekend with my little brother and sister. I just loved that quote. It just speaks to you. You may never know who would need that kindness you put forth. So this week be kind to others. It can change there whole life! 

Have courage. Do the things you thought you can not do. Don’t let the devil steal that from you. Believe in yourself. Someone once told me you are your own worst critic. I know that to be true. Because I am constantly putting myself down. It has to end sometime. Why not today? So let’s do all the things others and ourselves said we can not do! 

Having Courage and Kindness 

Ebony Monae💜


I really hope we all be a little more kinder to others. And have ALOT more courage to do the things we thought we can not. 

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📖One Step at a Time (Update)📖

It’s been so long since I have updated you guys on my book I am writing. I can’t believe it was almost a year ago that I had started writing this book. I have a few more chapters then it will be completed. 

For the record writing a book is hard work. You have all these ideas in your head and when you get it down on paper it just doesn’t sound right. Then you have these moments were you can picture a scene so clearly and write about it so beautifully you shock yourself. 

I’m so happy I took the leap and started writing. It was something I wanted to do with my best friend as she loves books just as much as I do, but it wasn’t something she wanted to do. I knew in my heart it was something that I needed to do. 

I’m so glad I did do it. My story has gotten a lot of love from people all over the world. I have received some great feedback. It has motivated me to finish the book. It takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there. I’m glad I did. 

Thank you to my best friend for reading my book, for taking the time to edit and guide me I greatly appreciate it. Thank you for you unyielding belief in me. Thank you to the readers who have taken time out to vote, comment and read my words. To an a writer it means the world. 

If your interested in my story you can find it on My username is Geekchick1998. My story is called One Step at a Time. Let me know what you think. I will greatly appreciate it. 

Following her dreams, 

Ebony Monae


Never stop doing the things that brings you joy💜